by Fr. Tommy Lane
Whose agenda are you following? Your own agenda or God’s agenda? Whose will are you doing? Your own will or God’s will? Whose kingdom are you building up? Your own kingdom or God’s kingdom? What about Mary in our Gospel? She was certainly not following her own agenda or doing her own will or building her own kingdom when she said “Yes” to the angel Gabriel to become the mother of Jesus: “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.” (Luke 1:38) Think of the consequences it could have had for her. She could have been stoned to death according to the law of that time (Deut 22:20-21). For that reason, Mary knew that from the human point of view she may not even be able to bring her pregnancy to its full term, but she had faith to believe that what is impossible for us is possible for God. And so with that faith she said “Yes.” She surrendered into the hands of God, and it really was surrendering because she did not know what the consequences would be. But she had faith to believe that no matter what difficulties would follow, God would provide a way out and a remedy. Mary’s final words to the angel are a model for each of us: “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.” (Luke 1:38) And because Mary surrendered to God, Jesus came.
Mary shows us how to be a follower of Jesus, making a loving surrender into the hands of God who loves us. When we wonder if we can make such an act of trust and abandonment into the hands of God, remember that when God calls he also gives the grace. On the day you got married, it was not just you and your spouse who were united. It was you and your spouse united with Jesus because your marriage is a sacrament and the grace of that sacrament is there if you ask for it. Even when something seems impossible, believe like Mary that when God calls you he will also supply you with the grace.
Surrendering to God, making that act of trust or abandonment into the hands of God, is not easy. It means letting go and like Mary facing into the unknown and the unknown scares us. I find the following passage from a book by Sr. Ruth Burrows helpful:
The
proud cannot bring themselves to hold out empty hands to God, they insist on
offering virtues, good works, self-denials, anything in order not to have
nothing. They want to be beautiful for him from their own resources, whereas we
are beautiful only because God looks on us and makes us beautiful. God cannot
give himself to us unless our hands are empty to receive him. The deepest reason
why so few of us are saints is because we will not let God love us. To be loved
means a naked, defenceless surrender to all God is. It means a glad acceptance
of our nothingness, a look fixed only on the God who gives, taking no account of
the nothing to whom the gift is made.
(above paragraph taken from
Guidelines for Mystical Prayer page 83
by Sr. Ruth Burrows, published and copyright 1976 by Sheed and Ward and used by
permission of the publishers.)
Another spiritual writer of our times, Thomas Merton has said,
The whole Christian life is a life in which the
further a person progresses, the more he has to depend directly on God...The
more we progress, the less we are self-sufficient. The more we progress, the
poorer [in spirit] we get so that the man who has progressed most, is totally
poor [in spirit]—he has to depend directly on God. He’s got nothing left in
himself.
(above paragraph taken from Monastic Spirituality: Citeaux Tape AA2083 by
Thomas Merton; recorded and copyright by Credence Cassettes, Kansas City, MO,
USA, and used by permission of the publishers.)
We are all faced with a decision like Mary. Will we surrender to God and allow God to do what from our human point of view seems impossible? Will we surrender our agenda, our will, and our kingdom to God and allow God’s agenda, will, and kingdom to become a reality? When Mary surrendered, Jesus came.
To help us surrender like Mary, Charles de Foucauld has written a famous Prayer of Abandonment.
Father,
I abandon myself into your hands;
do with me what you will.
Whatever you may do, I thank you:
I am ready for all, I accept all.
Let only your will be done in me,
and in all your creatures—
I wish no more than this, O Lord.
I offer it to you with all the love of my heart,
for I love you, Lord, and so need to give myself,
to surrender myself into your hands without reserve,
and with boundless confidence,
for you are my Father.
Some parts of that prayer are more difficult to pray than others, “do with me whatever you will” and “I am ready for all, I accept all.” It requires faith and trust like Mary to pray that with the heart, but when we do, then Jesus can come. Jesus cannot come if we do not surrender. On the first Christmas Jesus came because Mary surrendered to God and said “yes.” Will Jesus come to you this Christmas? Surrender your agenda, your will, and your kingdom to God like Mary so that Jesus will have room to come to you this Christmas.
Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word. (Luke 1:38)
Copyright © Fr. Tommy Lane 2002
This homily was delivered in a parish in Ireland.
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